no one can deal with all this.
got this am, but has been almost 6 days no contact. went to last eat last thursday
“I should have gotten back to you sooner, but didn’t know what to say.
The truth is this – You wore me out emotionally. I am exhausted. It seems that I can’t help you.
Thursday we went to JT Saloon and had a nice breakfast. You wanted answers/options. I tried to give you answers.
Go to a doctor and dentist. Get back on IHSS or get Meals on Wheels. You said NO to every suggestion. (I think you are a LITTLE stubborn.) lol
Then when I wake up on Friday, I find a long message from you that you have no options. It was a very emotional letter.
I know you have many problems. Health, financial, leaky roof, etc. etc. BUT, I can’t help you with those problems. I thought the best I could do for you was just be your friend and listen to you.
I still want to be your friend. I still care about you. BUT, you have to help yourself too.
I have a doctor’s appointment this morning and errands to do. You can still reach me at….”
- ———————————————————–I did try IHSS 2+ yrs and so many problems with help taking advantage of me, and then how it operates alone, great for a bed ridden person, not one that is able to do now n then..
- Then, meals on wheels is a joke here, idid try yrs back n they cut so much on programs now and i learned to stock up, raid freezer and call in food orders…
- Drs a joke on the system, won’t even give me antibiotics when my gums infected says go to dentist and we have no coverage past 5+ yrs due to cutbacks..
- its a mess,
- no one can just “listen” so seems, if i don’t do what they feel i should do
- i do well considering, but thats problem they don’t know what I’ve been thru.. they get upset n say i’m stubborn…
- oh well, now just that much more stress to deal with… least will put me closer to getting outta here faster.
- i can wish!
thats the problem, I have none that can just “listen” so seems, if i don’t do what they feel i should do, they leave. they can’t deal with just listening….